Why are women so stupid ???

Now don't get offended women by the title, I am in the same category. I spoke to my sister in Australia last night and boy how I feel for her! let me add that she is the nicest, caring loving women I know. I am going to tell her story for you I won't be mentioning any names (I don't want to blow up people's spots) so my sister will be called M her ex-partner and baby's father will be X and my nephew her son will be A.

Many years ago M met X he isn't from Australia, so when X met M he was married with two children (for papers). Anyway X lied and said that they weren't his kids and he wasn't married, but later on X  told M the truth. M sill kept seeing him STUPID MISTAKE NUMBER ONE!!! so they went out and were living together off and on because X's wife lived in another state, and only wanted money off him, Money that M gave to him STUPID MISTAKE NUMBER TWO!!! so years went on and X finally got his permanent residency and divorced his wife. Meanwhile he was cheating on M and doing shady illegal activities to get money the whole time. So M decided to fall pregnant to X STUPID MISTAKE NUMBER THREE!!! but I love A and he is the only good thing to come out of this story. So after nine months A was born. Just months after X got locked up for many years around 6 or 7, X was cheating with a girl before he was locked up and A was born lets call her L. While X was locked up M was able to get her life on track with her son A, she started university and got her divers license it seemed with X locked up she could finally get on. So stupid M and stupid L kept visiting X in jail over the years, X feeding both these women Lie's which they ate up with a spoon. M stayed faithful to X in hope's that they will play happy families when X got out BOY WAS SHE WRONG!!! because M was tired of giving X money and had a son HIS SON to look after X kept seeing L who I guess funded his lawyers and put money in his jail account so the piece of shit could be comfy. Anyway after X got out of jail they put him in a detention camp for immigrant's he only has his permanent residency so they were trying to deport him, But he stayed on the count he has 3 kids which he doesn't take care of. About three or so weeks ago X got out for good and totally dissed M said he wants nothing to do with her just wants to see his son, which is fine a little hurtful for M because she thought they would have a life together, and after waiting 6 to 7 years you can expect that. X is now with L but I know it's only for $$$ seeing as he has nothing and nowhere to stay. A is heart broken because X said that when he gets out that M, A and X would be a family, True to X's form he thinks of only himself. So after speaking to M on the phone last night and saying to her what hurt me the most in the case of my husband cheating was,  knowing that what you thought was special  like times going out to movies, dinner, bike rides late night talks really means NOTHING!!! because it had lost that special feeling knowing he was doing all those things with someone else. And that's what hurts the most right girls? knowing that it is all a lie! and the man you call your husband or boyfriend you don't even really know!!! But I think at the end of the day nobody can hurt you unless you allow them to. So it's time to smarten up girls and make better choices on who you date and marry.


Please feel free to comment and give your own opinions on this situation or even yours, I will be happy to answer any questions :)